The founder and clinical director of Body with Hypnosis, Dr. David E. Eskelin is a certified clinical hypnotherapist in Puyallup, WA. Dr. David Eskelin also works closely with a variety of domestic violence programs such as Violent Crimes Victims Service (VCVS) in Tacoma, WA.
The victims of violent crimes often undergo a series of emotions and symptoms related to the trauma they have experienced. The VCVS outlines many ways friends and family members can offer assistance to victims of violence or anyone dealing with grief and loss.
-Simply being there for victims, to comfort or sit in silence, can ease their grief. Use statements such as “I’m sorry,” and make yourself available to assist with basic day-to-day chores or errands.
-Avoid clichés and explanations of what happened. Instead, make sure the victim knows you are there to help and listen if he or she wants to talk.
-Victims of violence experience a whirlwind of emotions when grieving, some of which may be unexpected or strange to you. Accept that whatever victims may be feeling, be it anger, sadness, or guilt, is natural.
-Do not forget about victims’ grief just because a period of time has passed. Continue to show support and friendship, and consider sending a note on days that may be difficult, such as birthdays or holidays.
The victims of violent crimes often undergo a series of emotions and symptoms related to the trauma they have experienced. The VCVS outlines many ways friends and family members can offer assistance to victims of violence or anyone dealing with grief and loss.
-Simply being there for victims, to comfort or sit in silence, can ease their grief. Use statements such as “I’m sorry,” and make yourself available to assist with basic day-to-day chores or errands.
-Avoid clichés and explanations of what happened. Instead, make sure the victim knows you are there to help and listen if he or she wants to talk.
-Victims of violence experience a whirlwind of emotions when grieving, some of which may be unexpected or strange to you. Accept that whatever victims may be feeling, be it anger, sadness, or guilt, is natural.
-Do not forget about victims’ grief just because a period of time has passed. Continue to show support and friendship, and consider sending a note on days that may be difficult, such as birthdays or holidays.